From the Sabbath School Section of this blog
Every successful community is unique and impossible to replicate. And yet something fairly simple is clear about the creation and continuation of each. Community is created by relationships which thrive on shared story and stories shared.
Every successful community is unique and impossible to replicate. And yet something fairly simple is clear about the creation and continuation of each. Community is created by relationships which thrive on shared story and stories shared.
Community happens
anywhere lives are shared:
A shady area outside a primary school where parents meet to wait for their children
A parking lot where smokers come together during a work break
A year 12 room where students prepare for exams
A church where believers gather to share stories of life and faith
A shady area outside a primary school where parents meet to wait for their children
A parking lot where smokers come together during a work break
A year 12 room where students prepare for exams
A church where believers gather to share stories of life and faith
Community is formed by the story you live combined with the stories you tell each other.
Shared Story:
The parents have children
The smokers have a pressing need
The year 12 students have studies
The believers have faith
The parents have children
The smokers have a pressing need
The year 12 students have studies
The believers have faith
Stories Shared:
The parents tell stories of what their kids are doing
The smokers talk about work, friends and family
The year 12 students talk about love, life and learning
The believers talk about love, faith, hope and life
The parents tell stories of what their kids are doing
The smokers talk about work, friends and family
The year 12 students talk about love, life and learning
The believers talk about love, faith, hope and life
Community.
It’s that simple.
So why do many churches seem to be falling apart? I believe
it is because we aren’t building community in natural ways. We make the mistake
of believing programs and doctrine will build a healthy church community. We
try to program it. We try to force community to happen. Sometimes we succeed. And
sometimes we fail. And afterward when we pull apart the programs, meals,
events, etc; we ask questions about what we did right and wrong.
And we ignore
the fact that rarely do people leave a church because of programs or doctrine. They
leave because of failed relationships. Someone said something judgmental.
Someone was a bully. Someone believed their program or doctrine was so
important that it justified offending the heart and soul of a fellow sibling in
Christ. And they left.
So, that’s what makes them leave. What makes them stay? What
builds a Christlike community that lasts through thick and thin? I’d like to
suggest that Christ Centred Community is built on four levels of shared story and
stories shared. These shared stories - shared often - strengthen our ties and bind
our community together for eternity.
Personal Story: What
is the story you share with your church? It may be the founding story. It may
be a younger story. It may be a story of joining or a story of remaining. It
may be a new story or an ancient one. When were you a baby in your church? When
did you grow up? When did you become a mentor? Your personal shared story may
be so old that you’ve forgotten it, or forgotten how to tell it. Reclaim it and
start retelling it.
Local Story: What
is the story your church shares with its community? What need did your church
first come into being to satisfy? How did your fledgling church answer the
question “What would Jesus do if He walked into this place?” How is your
maturing church answering this question now? If your church is not still telling
this story, start.
Corporate Story: What
is the story your church shares with other churches in your denomination? It’s
more than just doctrine. It may be the Gospel story from the Cannon or it may be
the Gospel story from a more recent enactment of God with Us. Your corporate
story is one that says, “We add this
to our denomination. People needing this
come here.” What is that story? How does it complete and compete with the wider
story of your corporate church? Tell this story with confidence and consistency.
Global Story: What
is the story your church shares with the world? How is your church reaching
beyond the borders of your nation? Where is your church ‘going into all the
world’ with its money and mission? Living and telling this story embeds your
church in the Kingdom of God by fulfilling the final reach of the Great
Commission.
Creating Christian
Community Through Consistency
Nothing tru;y epic ever happened on accident. It took planning. It
took preparation. And it took persistence of purpose. This is where Sabbath School
comes in. Because Sabbath School happens every week it is a surefire way to create
great community. Sabbath School has four distinct purposes that each work
together to build and reinforce long-term community. Each revolves around
telling our story.
Bible Story – We study
the Bible together. This story is our connection to God by looking backward
into the story of His interactions with His people in days of old and forward
into the promises scripture reveals about God plan for our future.
Our Story – We care
for each other. We listen to the story of the week from each members
perspective each Sabbath, usually through a simple question like, “How was your
week?” or “What was one high and one low from your week?” This tells the story of
how God is interacting with His people today.
Community Story –
We care for the world outside our walls. The local projects we participate in
create the story of how God is interacting with the world through his people in
our community today. Not only is it important to have local projects, it is
important to talk about them during Sabbath School so we know who we are and
who God is through us!
Global Story – We
care for the least of these. As our tithe dollars return to the General
Conference, our global church is able to create substantial change for good and
for God in the poorest and most remote parts of the world. Many local churches
also have their own overseas mission where they pour their heart and soul and
return to tell the story of lives saved and hearts changed. These stories also
must be told to release their power.
Conclusion and
Challenge
An untold story is a dead hero. Samson without his strength.
Moses without his staff. Elijah without his cloak. Peter without his pals. Paul
without his pen. Every story requires you to hold it, to savour it, to shape it
and then to share it with purpose and passion.
Sabbath School should be a storytelling symphony. As all the
stories; Bible, personal, local, corporate, global, human and Divine combine we
will experience community beyond our wildest imaginings – community where
Christ is concealed in every story and His heart is revealed in every telling
because He is central to each of our storied lives, once we start looking, listening,
telling and retelling the epic narrative of our past, present and future.
Storytelling is the purpose of Sabbath School because this is the
purpose of community. We were created for a story greater than our moment in
time and are only fully alive when we take our place in the story of the ages as
both character and narrator. His story is your story is my story is our story
is salvation’s story for the world.
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Learn more about running a healthy and thriving church through small groups on the Sabbath School Section of this blog or by emailing me to plan a Sabbath School workshop for your church.
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